How Moving Abroad Can Bring a Family Closer — and Make You Appreciate Home

A family’s move from Virginia to Germany brought them closer together but also left them longing for loved ones back in the U.S. Here’s an intimate look at how living overseas reshaped their bond, enriched their daily life, and highlighted the emotional cost of distance.

From Frequent Birthdays to Far-Off Flights

Raised just 45 minutes from her extended family in Maryland, the author cherished monthly gatherings and spontaneous celebrations. When her husband’s job took them to Germany for a 3½-year stint, they left behind grandparents, cousins, and familiar celebrations.

Rediscovering Family Time at Home Abroad

Freed from her U.S. career, the author embraced her new role as a present, hands-on mom attending school parties, field trips, and everyday milestones. Without a commute or office demands, she created a nurturing, close-knit bubble with her husband and two sons.

Living a Real-World Classroom Across Europe

Weekend trips from Christmas markets to reindeer tasting in Norway became family traditions. Their older son’s teacher noted his growing cultural awareness, a testament to their international life.

The Weight of Missing Home

Even amid joyful days, the author felt pangs of guilt missing her grandmother’s decline, a nephew's birth, and birthday parties. Regular video calls and visits helped but couldn’t replace the warmth of being there.

Stronger Roots, Softer Edges

This bittersweet journey reinforced their core: the family became more united, loving, and resilient. Though 4,000 miles from home, they know their extended family will welcome them with open arms when they return.